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OMG! YOU’RE ENGAGED!!!

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OMG YOU”RE ENGAGED!!!!

Let me start off with I don’t normally talk like this, but engagement is worth an OMG moment.  How exciting for you, for your new fiancé, for both sets of parents and everyone who loves you.  Now it is decision time.  Besides picking a wedding date one of the most important wedding planning decision you will ever make is to decide is whether you want a wedding planner (and to acknowledge that sometimes you may need one even more than you want one) So why would you want or need a wedding planner? Here are some guidelines that may help you figure out if you need to reach out and get some help…

  • You want to plan a fantastic, thoughtful, fun, thoroughly unique and “you” event!
  • You are incredibly busy… maybe you and your fiancé have high pressure careers and travel tons, maybe you are in grad school, or maybe you have schedules that are constantly in conflict with getting stuff done. Either way wedding planning takes an immense amount of time and energy (400 hours on average –10 full time work weeks – yeah… think about it…Holy Moly right??)
  • You are totally “In Love” with him or her but you are NOT “In Love” with planning a wedding.
  • What do you mean there is a difference between coral, orange, peach???
  • You live out of town, state or even the country. Over half of my clients are coming back to Wisconsin for their wedding. Sometimes they were raised here, often went to college here, usually have family here, but they almost always live a plane ride away.
  • You are not a good decision maker… That’s A.O.K! You would be amazed how many high functioning people who make important decisions everyday are completely stymied by wedding planning decisions. These challenges can apply to large beautifully orchestrated wedding events and to the small, intimate, wedding evenings and dinners… no matter what the event, there are always tons of decisions.
  • You just want some help.
  • This AMAZING Dear Sugar advice column applies to you! A Shimmering Slice of Your Mysterious Destiny

Okay, so say some of these reasons apply to you. Picking your wedding planner is very much like picking your hairdresser, doctor, shrink (please take no offense health care professionals) or attorney… you want somebody you are comfortable with, who you understand and understands you back, who will advocate for you, listen to you, be creative for you… and is genuinely someone you want to spend the next 4 to 18 months working very closely with.  THIS STUFF MATTERS … just because you have met a wedding planner doesn’t mean they are the right one for you. I am not the best fit for everyone… my energy level is high (some people translate that in to intense or highly caffeinated); I am direct and pull no punches; I will be the budget police; I really try not to, but I kinda have a potty-mouth, I am incredibly transparent… But these same reasons are often  WHY I AM A GREAT FIT… I am passionate about my work, I LOVE what I do, I consider myself an installation artist with contract savvy.  I am high energy which means I don’t fizzle out 12 hours into one of the most important days of your life and I am one heck of a work horse. I don’t pull any punches which means I will advocate for you, BOTH of you, be honest about decision making and make sure you understand the options in front of you.  I do swear… but I use it carefully (unless one slips by) and I tend to tell pretty funny jokes. I will hold your hand, I will nurture, I will make sure your wedding day is true to your love story.

So… if you need someone that is a low-key-cultivate-your-path-kind-of-gentle-planner I am not her (but I know her and will be happy to refer you)… and if you need someone who is “Just the Facts Ma’am” kind of Joe Friday Planner (you know that amazingly professional, uber talented, lets-just-get-to-business-planner) I am not her either, (I am a little to squishy, bubbly, let’s get personal type of person) but again, I know her too and I am happy to introduce you.

My sweetie clients Dave and Meredith (who celebrated their 1 year anniversary this past October) summed me up as this:

“Jenny offers a keen sense of continuity and stability throughout the process, wrapped up in a package that is equal parts big sister, intuitive designer, slap-stick comedian, and bulldog.”

So if this is what you want… then I am perfect for you. I am a wedding planner because I want to help. I want to be there with you on your wedding day, fixing your veil, handing you your flowers, making sure you are not aware or worried about the weird things that will inevitably go wrong (but I won’t tell you until we grab a cocktail after you get back from your honeymoon), I want to make sure the only work you and your family do on your wedding day is have fun and learning the Wobble, I want to hear you and the love of your life exchange a lifetime of promises to each other … and I want to dance and eat cake.

Now just for some self-indulgence… these are some of my favorite behind the scenes Jenny the Wedding Planner moments… you can see why I love my work <3

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Happy engagement my dears… I hope to talk soon. signature

 

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Welcome to the LHE blog and my place to tell my couples' love stories and share random thoughts. A bit about me...I love weddings. I love my clients. I love comfy shoes and jeans. I am obsessed with EOS lipbalm. I talk too much about my kid. I drink way too much coffee. Often my clients and I become great friends, and mostly...I am so excited that you stopped by. 

My absolute joy in being a wedding planner comes from celebrating with you during your most important moments. 

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xo - Jenny